Sunday, April 28, 2013

28 Weeks and Feeling Blessed!


Wow, 28 Weeks.  We are getting really close to the special day that we get to meet our little one!  Things feel a bit different for me since I entered the 3rd trimester.  I still feel pretty good most days and am not too uncomfortable (I was able to go on a 4 mile hike through the lovely Karangahake Gorge with new friends).  Also I am still sleeping great!  However, I have noticed a need for a nap more often as well as a bit more discomfort as I try to maneuver my body around.  I have also had a few days of mild back pain- not fun!  But overall I don't have much to complain about!

It is so fun to watch our baby move around in my belly!  We can literally see my belly jump when baby kicks, and we can feel hiccups and the baby rolling around here and there.  I have also had more of what I assume to be Braxton Hicks, especially after I have had a long walk.  I recently learned that these are really good as they are strengthening and toning my body for labor!  It is a blessing to be able to feel our baby move and to feel my body changing as it prepares for him or her to be born!

When we first moved to New Zealand a little over 3 months ago, our Navigator city supervisor sent out an email to the community of people that he knows asking if any one had extra "stuff" they didn't need to help us set up our new home. One woman in particular was really interested in helping us with baby items.  This woman has a child-care business, loves babies, and has the resources and know how to bless a young couple like us! 

Just a few weeks ago this woman took me shopping (I won't mention her name because she wouldn't want me to), and what a shopping trip it was!  I was humbled and so blessed by her as she proceeded to pick out lovely things for our new baby- it was like she was throwing me her own little baby shower!  I stood in the store jaw dropped as she insisted on buying different items she felt our new baby would need, one of these items being an electronic swing which Andy and I were really wanting! After this amazing and generous shopping trip, I thanked her a lot though I felt I didn't have the appropriate words to express my gratitude.  She told me that she felt God told her "this is your girl" and put me on her heart to bless as we prepare for a new baby without family nearby in this new culture.  I never could have imagined that God would provide for us so many wonderful things in this way through a woman who barely knows us.  To Him be the glory through this special provision!  

Below are a few more pics!

Andy and I hiking (aka tramping) in the Karangahake Gorge.  
Tramping through one of the many tunnels.
New Zealand's famous Silver Fern which looks silver on the bottom side of it.
Beautiful bassinet that my generous friend gave us! 
Adorable New Zealand merino sleep sacks from my unexpected shopping trip- I love these and can't wait to see our little baby in them!





Thursday, April 25, 2013

Cultural Nuances: A User's Guide to Coffee

Below is a picture featured at one of our local Cafes- "A User's Guide to Coffee". I was thrilled to see this because it helped me piece together the difference between a Flat White and a Latte, which at first I would have said are are exactly the same. But, they aren't! The difference between them is how they steam the milk and what parts of that make it into the drink (A flat white is one of the most popular drinks here and is spreading from NZ to the world; if you get the chance try one because they are fantastic.). I think this is a good and simple illustration of many of the cultural differences here that we are still learning and seeking to understand.

A helpful breakdown of the different coffees that the Cafe's here serve.
Like many things in New Zealand, several of these drinks would be exactly the same in the US.  However, many of them are also distinct and unique to NZ. Taking this as a small illustration of the culture at large, the key is to notice and adapt to the nuances. Kathryn and I could have landed in Auckland and dove in to life here full-on, not worrying about these subtle differences and concluding that people here are just weird, yet at the core are just like us. This would have led to us not adapting much and missing many of the things that make people here uniquely Kiwi.  If we had taken this approach, we would most likely find ourselves doing ministry here in ways that would prove rather unproductive. Our understanding of New Zealand culture is still quite young, but we are learning and observing a lot and asking lots of questions.

One of the many categories of things that we have been learning a lot about are things related to soon coming baby Iversen! Here are some fun examples of word differences that we are still adjusting to and getting teased about for our mistakes:
  • Nappy - Diaper (consequently if you say "will you hand me a napkin?" people will be confused, because that makes them think diaper; instead, you say "will you hand me a serviette (which is French)?")
  • Cot - Crib
  • Antenatal Classes - Prenatal Classes
  • Dummy (not sure on that spelling, but that is the pronunciation) - Pacifier (though some here say Passie)
  • Cesar (pronounced Caesar) - C-Section
  • Capsule - Carseat
  • Pram or Buggy - Stroller
It seems that each time we go to our antenatal class we find ourselves pulling the instructor aside afterwards to ask for some clarification of terms! 

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Scary Movie Syndrome




When I was a junior at University I was asked by some friends to go see Saw III with them. I should state up front that I hate all scary movies: thrillers, terror, whatever you want to call them, I don't like them. I have a valid reason for this but it's a different story for a different day! My initial disposition then was to say no, but since I was completely bored in the dorms, I decided to go. Oh how I hated that movie! I knew that I would, but I'll blame this one on peer pressure!

While I happen to hate those movies I know that lots of people love them and I have a theory as to why. I think that in part people love scary movies because they want the rush of adrenaline and fear of being in that situation without actually having to ever be in any danger.

Not long after that experience I was reading in the book of Ezekiel 33:30-32.

“As for you, son of man [referring to Ezekiel here], your people who talk together about you by the walls and at the doors of the houses, say to one another, each to his brother, ‘Come, and hear what the word is that comes from the LORD.’ And they come to you as people come, and they sit before you as my people, and they hear what you say but they will not do it; for with lustful talk in their mouths they act; their heart is set on their gain. And behold, you are to them like one who sings lustful songs with a beautiful voice and plays well on an instrument, for they hear what you say, but they will not do it.”

The prophecies that the LORD has given to Ezekiel have been walking a tight rope between exile and redemption. One of the main phrases throughout Ezekiel is “then they will know that I am the LORD” these prophecies that Ezekiel has been given are to reveal the LORD both through his unleashing of judgment (in exiling the people) and through his rescue of his people (in his promised redemption). Like most of the prophets, he was given many things to say that were hard to hear! I mean, who wants to hear a message that your favorite places will be destroyed and you will be removed as a nation from your homeland. Ezekiel was also given some messages that would have pulled on the hearts of his hearers, things that they eagerly desired and longed for (take for example the LORD’s promise to give them new hearts and to put a new spirit within them Ez. 36:26, 27).

In the passage quoted above, however, the LORD is letting Ezekiel in on one of the things that will happen throughout his ministry: people will come to you, excited to hear the word from the LORD, and they will sit before you and they will hear what you say, but they will not do it.

This happens very often in churches and ministries all over the world. People come to hear from God’s Word, eagerly, yet they walk away unchanged without any intention of applying the things that the Lord was telling them. This is especially tragic because the message that Ezekiel was giving (and that messengers of the gospel today give as well) was intended to lead the people to a right response to God in a way that allows God to deliver them. But God promises/foretells to Ezekiel that people will walk away at this point wholly unchanged, but having enjoyed what he was saying as if he was singing “lustful songs with a beautiful voice” and good accompanying instruments. That is, they will walk away as if they had just been to a fantastic concert or musical! 

I refer to this as scary movie syndrome. At its heart it is a desire to come as close as you can to walking with God, in many attempts to get some sort of influx of emotion/passion, without ever having to actually do anything! You come, you hear God’s Word, have a little shutter…ooooohhh…and then go on like it was just a dream or a meaningless concert. While it’s perfectly okay to do this at the movies, it is a whole other deal to do this with the Scriptures.

There is another type of scary movie syndrome that is talked about in the Scriptures and that I see just as regularly. Believe it or not, I have occasionally interacted with students who have drawn the conclusions about their understanding of life from scary movies. Later that same year at university I sat for an hour and a half asking questions and listening to a young student proclaim to me his viewpoint of the world and the only things he cited as sources to prove his points, were scary movies (Saw III being one of them)!

Paul speaks of this same thing in his second letter to Timothy chapter 4: “For the time is coming when people will not endure sound teaching, but having itching ears they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions, and will turn away from listening to the truth and wander off into myths” (2 Timothy 4:3-5).

Paul isn’t referring to scary movies (clearly!) here and for most people the things that they are using as their guides for life other than the Bible aren’t scary movies either but it’s the same thing no matter what you are looking to apart from Scripture. Taking something that was never intended to define or explain your life or the world around you and giving it that place in your life!

This passage and the Ezekiel passage have some amazing similarities. In Ezekiel he says that the motivation for the people coming and walking away excited, but with no intention of responding at all is that “their heart is set on their gain.” Here Paul says they will find “teachers to suit their own passions”. How true! At the bottom of it all is the heart that is determining your words, actions, and here, where you look for understanding and life. We live in a day and age where with relative ease (yay Google!) you can find someone who will tell you what you want to hear. Paul says that then you will make that person or that message the foundation blocks of your life so that you can go on wholly unchanged and unflinchingly convinced that you are right!

Moving to a new culture has made these realities stand out even more starkly in our minds and hearts. New Zealand is a beautiful place and many people are doing well for themselves here and insist that there is no objective truth or reality that structures the world around us or ourselves. Many people here, just as in the rest of the world, are living the scary-movie syndrome.

It is our prayer that we ourselves won’t live a scary-movie life, but will hear what God has said in His Word and will wholeheartedly, as He pours out His grace, follow Him. It is also our prayer that God will so work in the hearts and lives of people here to do the same.

I read a fantastic plea yesterday from John Flavel urging people who are living a scary-movie life to turn and behold the beauty of Christ:

“O beware, lest the dust of the earth, getting into your eyes, so blind you, that you never see the beauty or necessity of Christ.” – John Flavel “The Fountain of Life Opened Up”, p. 12

What a beautiful picture, beware lest the dust of the earth blinds you so that you can’t see the beauty or necessity of Christ! The antithesis of which is in one of my favorite hymns: “Fix your eyes upon Jesus; look full in his wonderful face, and the things of this world will grow strangely dim, in the light of his glory and grace.”